Something in you already recognised this place.
Fire people arrive here with a certain energy, a heaviness in the chest paired with a fierce, tender hope. A quiet knowing that something in their relationship needs to change… and that they can’t keep carrying it alone.
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You’re the one who feels everything first.
The one who tries the hardest, holds the most, loves the deepest.
The one who senses when the relationship slips out of balance long before anyone else names it. You’re the one who keeps showing up, even when it hurts.
And yet…
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Some days you feel powerful. Other days you feel small inside your own home.
Some moments you feel deeply connected. Other moments you feel painfully alone beside someone you love.
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You’re here not because your fire is the problem, but because it’s been misunderstood, unreciprocated, or left to burn without support.
If your heart is thumping a little faster right now…
If it feels like these words found you at the exact moment you needed them…
You’re in the right place.
Fire in Relationships
You feel deeply.
You give fully.
You love with your whole chest.
And because of this, you may also be:
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carrying the emotional load for the relationship
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walking on eggshells
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over-functioning while your partner under-functions
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burning out from giving without receiving
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feeling unseen, unheard, or dismissed
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stuck in cycles of miscommunication
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craving intimacy, but feeling disconnected
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navigating patterns that feel manipulative or narcissistic
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longing for repair, but unsure how to break the cycle
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If you dont take the first steps to change then nothing will change.
How did we even get here?
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Fire-aligned people often reach this stage when:
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Communication keeps looping
The same arguments, the same shutdowns, the same disconnection. -
One partner dominates the emotional climate
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The relationship feels passionate but unstable
Big feelings, big reactions, big exhaustion. -
They’re trying to save the relationship alone
And the flame is flickering from the effort.
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You don’t need to put your fire out.
You need someone who can help shape it with you.
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Chat with Erin today
The path forward
This is where our work begins, gently, intentionally, and with deep understanding.
We focus on:
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Strengthening communication so both partners feel heard
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Rebalancing emotional labour
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Understanding narcissistic patterns with compassion and clarity
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Rebuilding connection without losing yourself
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Shifting reactive patterns into healthy, grounded responses
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Creating safety within the relationship — or clarity if it cannot be created
Fire teaches us that healing is not passive.
It is transformation.
Book your free chat with Erin today.
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The offering you need right now
Calm & Connected Couples Counselling / Coaching
For partners ready to communicate better, reconnect, repair trust, or break out of old patterns.
Perfect if emotions run hot, conversations spiral, or you keep misunderstanding one another.
What you’ll experience:
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Supported communication
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Tools for emotional regulation
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Rebuilding connection
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Restoring teamwork
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Understanding triggers and patterns
Navigating Narcissism + Reclaiming Yourself
For individuals who feel controlled, dismissed, belittled, or confused in their relationship.
A safe space to understand what’s happening without judgment.
What you’ll gain:
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Emotional clarity
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Narcissistic pattern awareness
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Rebuilding confidence
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Boundaries that hold
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Support to make empowered decisions
Relationship Recovery & Realignment (1:1 Coaching)
If you’re burnt out, holding everything together, or losing yourself in the chaos of relating, this offering brings you back to centre.
Best for:
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People pleasers
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Over-givers
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Those craving stability
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Those healing after emotional manipulation
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Those wanting to transform how they show up in love
What clients have said:
“We came in barely speaking. We left feeling like a team again. Erin helped us hear each other in a way we never had before.”
“Our sessions gave us language for things we’d been carrying silently for years. It brought us back to each other.”
“It didn’t feel like therapy, it felt like rediscovering the person I fell in love with. The fire is back, but in the healthiest way.”